People will always doubt you. You may not always get one you want. You might fail1000x before your successful. But at least you tried.
See were you want be, visualize it and get there.
Military has changed me, i can appreciate the smile or a good comment from a loved one. Why? You as. Some one can complament me or a smile from after i told her a joke, gets branded in my mind. And that comes in handy when your in unknown lands